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Before there was language, there was silence.

Not an empty silence, but a living one. It was filled with sensations, sounds, movements, and presences that had not yet been named. The world existed as it does now, life unfolded as it does now, but meaning had not yet been assigned. There was perception without interpretation. Listening without commentary. Seeing without judgement.

Then came sound. And with sound came meaning.

The moment a sound began to stand for something beyond itself, language was born. A cry was no longer just a cry; it became a call. A gesture was no longer just movement; it became intention. With this arrival of language, our long journey towards meaning truly began. As the philosopher Ludwig Wittgenstein observed, “The limits of my language mean the limits of my world.”

Words — nouns, verbs, adjectives — not just described the world; they shaped it. They gave structure to experience, allowing us to hold it, examine it, and share it. From that moment onwards, nothing was just felt anymore; everything was also named.

Language changed us irrevocably.

On one hand, language allowed us to understand one another. It made collective life possible. Stories could be shared, instructions followed, emotions expressed. On the other hand, it allowed us to make sense of our inner world, which, without language, would remain chaotic, overwhelming, and largely inaccessible. Some philosophers even speculate that consciousness itself evolved alongside language, though that may be an overreach. We were always conscious, weren’t we? Language did not create consciousness; it gave it shape, texture, and continuity.

With language, the idea of meaning took root in us. Which, by the way, is a double-edged gift.

Once we become capable of meaning, two paths open before us. On one path, we succeed in finding it — through love, work, faith, creativity, or understanding  — and we live with a certain lightness, even when life is difficult. Viktor Frankl, writing from within the horrors of a concentration camp, observed that “those who have a why to live can bear almost any how.”

On the other path, though, meaning eludes us, and suffering follows. The tragedy is that if we had never known the idea of meaning at all, this particular suffering might never have found us. But once the question arises, thanks to the language itself, it refuses to leave us alone.

Much of our modern distress lives here.

We often believe that our anxiety, restlessness, or dissatisfaction comes from external circumstances. But very often, it comes from something more subtle: our inability to frame our lives clearly in language. We use words constantly, yet we rarely use them well. We misunderstand each other. We miscommunicate our needs. More importantly, we fail to tell ourselves a coherent story about who we are, what we value, and what we are going through.

Language, which could heal us, ends up confusing us.

We use it as a tool, but we do not truly understand it. We narrate our lives carelessly, repeating inherited phrases, borrowed beliefs, and half-formed conclusions.

“I am not good enough.”

“This always happens to me.”

“There is no point.”

These are not facts; they are stories. And once told often enough, they begin to feel like truth. George Orwell warned us that corrupted language can corrupt thought itself. Fortunately, the reverse is equally true: clarified language can clarify life.

This is where the healing power of language reveals itself.

Healing begins by changing the way reality is spoken about. When we learn to pause, to listen to our inner language, to notice the words with which we describe our pain, something shifts. Vague suffering becomes specific. Overwhelming emotion becomes nameable. What can be named can be held, and what can be held can, slowly, be transformed.

Consider grief. When unnamed, it appears as restlessness, fatigue, irritability, or numbness. But when language enters — This is loss. This is longing. This is love that has nowhere to go — the pain does not disappear, but it softens. It becomes human, shareable, survivable.

The same is true of anxiety. When left unexamined, it feels infinite. But when articulated carefully — This is fear of uncertainty. This is a need for control. This is the body anticipating danger where none exists — the fear shrinks to its actual size. Language places boundaries around suffering, and boundaries are the beginning of relief.

So, can we change the way language works in our lives?

Surely.

We begin by becoming conscious narrators of our own experience. By choosing words with care. By questioning the stories we tell ourselves. By writing, not to impress, but to clarify. By reading, not to escape, but to recognise ourselves in another human voice. By learning that a sentence can wound, but it can also mend; it can imprison, but it can also set free.

Language gave birth to meaning. And meaning, when approached wisely, can give birth to healing. The same words that once trapped us can become the ones that lead us home.